A memoir of the last days between a mother and daughter, told by both persons, both perspectives. The journey of sharing the last days with someone as they are dying is nothing less than an extraordinaire experience. It is one to be embraced, cherished and reflected upon later in life to assist with one’s own soul searching, as well as to share with others which may behoove from such a share. To exercise mindfulness during such a critical time in one’s life can turn the fear of the unknown into a more relaxed, beautiful and dignified time for all involved. Living in the moments as they occur, accepting and understanding the gamut of emotions of yourself and loved one(s), permits for this pathway to be created and traveled. Love is a selfless act of kindness, an unconditional act when real. Like placing an oxygen mask over yourself first, acknowledging and using your own thoughts, emotions and words will allow you give the care to others they may need.